Why Chasing Happiness Keeps You Unhappy
Learn how arrival fallacy and hedonic adaptation keep you chasing the next win—and the three daily habits that turn ordinary moments into lasting happiness.
July 04, 2025
9min
The arrival fallacy is the mistaken belief that reaching a goal will deliver lasting happiness or relief. In practice, the high is brief—baseline satisfaction returns quickly due to hedonic adaptation and shifting standards. This can trap people in an endless cycle of chasing the next milestone.
Recognizing the fallacy reframes goals as waypoints, not destinations. It encourages designing systems that make the process meaningful—through intrinsic motivation, aligned priorities and clear daily inputs—rather than postponing satisfaction until outcomes arrive.
Countermeasures include gratitude journaling, debriefing wins and defining your ideal end state so progress feels connected to something deeper than the next checkbox.